While deep on thoughts

You are expected to be SINGLE, when you can actually fall in love or date. That is during your college days. When you finally become comfortable with the idea of being single, boom! They pressurize you to get married. Then they'll  ask you why didn't you find someone on your own? Duh!🤦 REMEMBER You were the ones who said when we were studying, "concentrate only on studies nothing else. Keep your distance from boys they aren't trustworthy." I mean come on. Now all of a sudden you are asking me to get closer to such a guy whom I have never met in my life and judge his character, whether he is suitable for me to spend the rest of my life with him, in just 2 or 3 meetings. I spent half of my life with you and I don't even know when your views will change. How do u expect me to trust the other guy?? 😁 What I find hilarious is When we were in college you were intolerant of me speaking about a guy, who is my friend ,for many years. You want me to be independ...

HEART'S DILEMMA. The house where I am born, where I spent good 20-30 years of my life, WHERE MY HEART IS, is this really not my home?  There is a saying in India "beti paraya dhan hoti hai." Which literally translates to "A daughter is a outside/Alien(according to google translate) property". Which means she doesn't belong to her parents house. In our childhood and naive days we didn't care for these phrases. We were like "Oh! This is a quote in Hindi language. Yeah I have heard that." Ignorant little bloobs we were.🙈 In the back of our mind we daughters didn't like this phrase. But either we didn't have a mind to put it to words or we were too busy enjoining our childhood, our parents love and affection that we forgot, they were talking about our future. Indeed. Realization strikes when you are officially at 'Right age'(this concept is a scam I tell you) to get married. The late twenties, when you are out of the effects of ...